An old man was trying to teach his grandson about life's lessons: "A fight is going on inside me," he said to the boy. "It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, greed, arrogance, false pride, and ego. The other is love, joy, peace, hope, humility, kindness, and compassion. The same fight is going on inside of you – and inside every other person. " The grandson thought about it for a minute and then ask his grandfather "Which wo

We live in a day when everything is an acronym. FOMO  -- Fear-of-Missing-Out has become a familiar term . So. . . . . is curiosity a good thing or a bad thing? Curiosity, the desire to learn, is also known as "intellectual overexcitability". When you’re genuinely curious, you assume that other people may have information that you don’t have, or may see things that you may miss. Curiosity is a positive and beneficial trait that can improve relationships, and overall

As Thanksgiving approaches, our hearts are filled with gratitude. However, this sense of thankfulness should be an important part of our daily lives -- not just reserved for Thanksgiving. As my mentor Zig Ziglar used to say: We should all have an 'attitude of gratitude.' Thanksgiving is a condition of the heart and the more thankful you are about the things in your lives, the more things you have been thankful for! I'm so thankful for two of my greatest treasures —my w

We all go through the storms of life. We never purposely choose to go through our trials. They bring pain, confusion, and questions that we’d prefer not to face. But trials are often the pathways to God’s richest blessings .   When you are going through the next storm -- and we all will -- remember: I t takes both rain and sunshine to make a rainbow. Remember. . . God may be trying to teach you something or lead you in another direction. Look for the blessings beyond the st

Are you trying to escape a situation, a relationship or a job in your life? Make sure your decision isn't a ' Knee-Jerk Reaction' to the situation. Life's a wild ride, full of twists and turns that may leave us looking for an escape. Be careful where you're escaping to !     Are you sure you're making progress in the right direction? Everything may look rosy on your side of the tunnel. But ' so far, so good' doesn't exactly work here! So, what do you do? I got a coupl

Someone once said: You’re not a leader until you have produced a leader . True leaders don’t create followers. They create more leaders. What are the 3-rules of leadership ? 1. LEAD BY EXAMPLE 2 . LEAD BY EXAMPLE 3 . LEAD BY EXAMPLE Values are important. Albert Schweitzer once said: " Example is not the main  thing in influencing others. It  is the only thing. " The best leaders pay more attention to the principle than the crowd's opinions. Remember the old illustrati

This morning, as I was heading to work, I ended up behind a car with a sticker taped to the rear window: "Don't Honk, Learning to drive a stick-shift." Upon reading that, I immediately felt more understanding. I remained patient through the slow gear changes and jerky starts. Honestly, for someone still learning they were doing pretty good! But then a thought occurred to me: Would I have been just as patient if I had not seen that sign ? Probably not. And that thought st

To this guy -- this is Normal. What IS Normal? The only normal people are the ones you don't know very well . . . And the more you get to know them, the more you find out they're just as crazy as you are ! The myth of normal is that we assume the conditions of society are healthy just because we are used to them. Someone once asked me: "Do you worry about what people think of you?" Shocked, I responded " . . . . What they think of me??" Like I always say:  Normal for me

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